Sunday 29 July 2012

बौद्ध व्हायचे असेल तर २२ प्रतीज्ञांचे पालन करावे लागेल...!!!




बौद्ध व्हायचे असेल तर २२ प्रतीज्ञांचे पालन करावे लागेल...!!!

एक बाई असते कि जिचे नुकतेच लग्न झाले असते लागणा आधी तिचे संसाराविषयी खूप स्वप्न असतात पण होते उलटेच नवरा हा खूप अय्याश असतो आगदि पहिल्या दिवसापासून तिला मारतो, डोक्यावर पदर घेतला नाही मारतो, घराच्या बाहेर का उभी राहिलीस मार, भाजीत मीठ कमी घातले मार कारण असो व नसो रोज मार ठरलेला. तिलाही सवय झाली होती तिला वाटायचे आपली बाईची जात बाईला जातीला हे सर्व सहन करावेच लागते पण तिलाही कोणीतरी समजावणारा भेटतो व तिला समजावतो कि तू का इतके सहन करतेस. तिलाही ते पटायला लागते व ती ठरवते कि आपण नवर्याला समजावले पाहिजे. नवरा आला तिने त्यला समजावण्याचा प्रयत्न केला पण वर तोंड करून बोलतेस पुन्हा मार नंतर ती खूप विचार करते कि याला समजावून उपयोग नाही हा सुधारणार नाही मग कंटाळून ती निर्णय घेते …फारकत.. घटस्पोट…रीतसर त्याच्याशी फारकत घेते आणि योगायोग लगेच तिचे दुसरे लग्न होते. नवरा इतका चांगला असतो कि तिचा खूप लाड करतो, तिला हिल चे चप्पल, डोक्यावर पदर तर सोडाच तिला छान छान ड्रेस, नाटक, सिनेमा सर्व काही तिच्या मनासारखे. एवढे सर्व असताना जर ती चोरून आपली आधीच्या नवर्या कडे जात असेल व त्याच्याशी संबंध ठेवत असेल तर तिला काय म्हणायचे. हेच माझ्या मित्राने मला विचारले कि तू देवाला मानतोस का तर त्याला आधी हि गोष्ट सांगितली तर तो म्हणाला त्या बाईला चपलेने मारले पाहिजे मग मी त्याला समजावत म्हटले कि मी पूर्वी महार होतो महार म्हणजे हिंदू धर्मातली एक जात जोपर्यंत मी महार होतो तो पर्यंत मी हिंदू धर्माप्रमाणे वागत होतो उपवास तपास करत होतो, हिंदूंचे सन उदा. दिवाळी दसरा होळी इ. तसेच देव देवता मानत होतो तरीही हिंदू आम्हाला माणूस म्हणून वागवत नव्हता जसा तो नवरा त्या बाईला त्रास द्यायचा तसेच हिंदू आम्हाला गुलाम म्हणून वागवत होतो आम्हालाही कोणीतरी शिकविणारा भेटला त्याने पूर्ण व्यवस्थेशी टक्कर दिली आणि आम्हाला माणूसपण शिकविले व हिंदू धर्माला खूप समजावण्याचा प्रयत्न केला पण जसा तो नवरा ऐकत नव्हता तसेच हिंदू हि ऐकत नव्हता शेवटी कंटाळून आम्ही हिंदू धर्माशी फारकत घेतली बाबासाहेबांनी स्पष्ट सांगितले होते कि मी सांगतो म्हणून बौद्ध होऊ नका जर बौद्ध व्हायचे असेल तर २२ प्रतीज्ञांचे पालन करावे लागेल त्या २२ प्रतिज्ञा मध्ये पहिल्या ५ प्रतिज्ञा ह्या देवा विरोधात आहेत बाबासाहेबांनी पूर्ण अभासांती जाणले कि आमचा समाज इतका काळ अज्ञानानात राहिला त्याचे कारण हे देव आहे. आणि आजही आमचे काही बांधव देव देवतांना मानतात, पायात गळ्यात गंडे दोरे घालतात, विना चप्पल देवाला जातात स्वताला बौद्ध म्हणतात आणि वागणूक सर्व हिंदू धर्माप्रमाणे करतात अशांना काय म्हणावे हा माझा तुम्हाला प्रश्न...?

Gautam Buddha and the Angulimal



Gautam Buddha and the Angulimal

Gautam Buddha initiated a murderer into sannyas--and the murderer was no ordinary murderer. His name was Angulimal. Angulimal means a man who wears a garland of human fingers. He had taken a vow that he would kill one thousand people; from each single person he would take one finger so that he could remember how many he had killed and he will make a garland of all those fingers.

In his garland of fingers he had nine hundred and ninety-nine fingers--only one was missing. And that one was missing because his road was closed; nobody was coming that way. But Gautam Buddha entered that closed road. The king had put guards on the road to prevent people, particularly strangers who didn't know that a dangerous man lived behind the hills. The guards told Gautam Buddha, "That is not the road to be used. This is the place where Angulimal lives. Even the king has not the guts to go on this road. That man is simply mad.

"His mother used to go to him. She was the only person who used to go, once in a while, to see him, but even she stopped. The last time she went there he told her, 'Now only one finger is missing, and just because you happen to be my mother... I want to warn you that if you come another time you will not go back. I need one finger desperately. Up to now I have not killed you because other people were available, but now nobody passes on this road except you. So I want to make you aware that next time if you come it will be your responsibility, not mine.' Since that time his mother has not come."

The guards said to Buddha, "Don't unnecessarily take the risk." And do you know what Buddha said to them? Buddha said, "If I don't go then who will go? Only two things are possible: either I will change him, and I cannot miss this challenge; or I will provide him with one finger so that his desire is fulfilled. Anyway I am going to die one day. Giving my head to Angulimal will be at least of some use; otherwise one day I will die and you will put me on the funeral pyre. I think that it is better to fulfill somebody's desire and give him peace of mind. Either he will kill me or I will kill him, but this encounter is going to happen; you just lead the way."

The people who used to follow Gautam Buddha, his close companions who were always in competition to be closer to him, started slowing down. Soon there were miles between Gautam Buddha and his disciples. They all wanted to see what happened, but they didn't want to be too close. Angulimal was sitting on his rock watching. He could not believe his eyes. A very beautiful man of such immense charisma was coming towards him. Who could this man be?

He had never heard of Gautam Buddha, but even this hard heart of Angulimal started feeling a certain softness towards the man. He was looking so beautiful, coming towards him. It was early morning... a cool breeze, and the sun was rising... and the birds were singing and the flowers had opened; and Buddha was coming closer and closer. Finally Angulimal, with his naked sword in his hand, shouted, "Stop!" Gautam Buddha was just a few feet away, and Angulimal said, "Don't take another step because then the responsibility will not be mine. Perhaps you don't know who I am!"

Buddha said, "Do you know who you are?"
Angulimal said, "This is not the point. Neither is it the place nor the time to discuss such things. Your life is in danger!"
Buddha said, "I think otherwise--your life is in danger."
That man said, "I used to think I was mad--you are really mad! And you go on moving closer. Then don't say that I killed an innocent man. You look so innocent and so beautiful that I want you to go back. I will find somebody else. I can wait; there is no hurry. If I can manage nine hundred and ninety-nine... it is only a question of one more, but don't force me to kill you."

Buddha came very close, and Angulimal's hands were trembling. The man was so beautiful, so innocent, so childlike. He had already fallen in love. He had killed so many people... He had never felt this weakness; he had never known what love is. For the first time he was full of love. So there was a contradiction: the hand was holding the sword to kill the person, and his heart was saying, "Put the sword back in the sheath."

Buddha said, "I am ready, but why is your hand shaking?--you are such a great warrior, even kings are afraid of you, and I am just a poor beggar. Except the begging bowl, I don't have anything. You can kill me, and I will feel immensely satisfied that at least my death fulfills somebody's desire; my life has been useful, my death has also been useful. But before you cut my head I have a small desire, and I think you will grant me a small desire before killing me."

Before death, even the hardest enemy is willing to fulfill any desire. Angulimal said, "What do you want?"

Buddha said, "I want you just to cut from the tree a branch which is full of flowers. I will never see these flowers again; I want to see those flowers closely, feel their fragrance and their beauty in this morning sun, their glory."

So Angulimal cut with his sword a whole branch full of flowers. And before he could give it to Buddha, Buddha said, "This was only half the desire; the other half is, please put the branch back on the tree."

Angulimal said, "I was thinking from the very beginning that you are crazy. Now this is the craziest desire. How can I put this branch back?"

Buddha said, "If you cannot create, you have no right to destroy. If you cannot give life, you don't have the right to give death to any living thing."

A moment of silence and a moment of transformation... the sword fell down from his hands. Angulimal fell down at the feet of Gautam Buddha, and he said, "I don't know who you are, but whoever you are, take me to the same space in which you are; initiate me."

By that time the followers of Gautam Buddha had come closer and closer. They were all around and when he fell at Buddha's feet they immediately came close. Somebody raised the question, "Don't initiate this man, he is a murderer!"

Buddha said again, "If I don't initiate him, who will initiate him? And I love the man, I love his courage. And I can see tremendous possibility in him: a single man fighting against the whole world. I want this kind of people, who can stand against the whole world. Up to now he was standing against the world with a sword; now he will stand against the world with a consciousness, which is far sharper than any sword. I told you that murder was going to happen, but it was not certain who was going to be murdered--either I was going to be murdered, or Angulimal. Now you can see Angulimal is murdered. And who I am to judge?"

Thursday 19 July 2012

INTRODUCTION OF BUDDHISM


In recent years Western visitors to Thailand have displayed an increasing interest in our national religion, Buddhism. “Who was the Buddha?” “What did he teach?” “What do Buddhists believe about life after death, good and evil and the beginning of the world?” To answer these and similar questions the present writing is intended.
The Buddha’s teachings can be understood on two distinct levels. One is logical and conceptual and is concerned with an intellectual comprehension of man and the external universe. It is on this level that the above questions are more easily answered.
p_enlight.jpg (25276 bytes)The second level is empirical, experiential and psychological. It concerns the ever-present and inescapable phenomena of everyday human experience -- love and hate, fear and sorrow, pride and passion, frustration and elation. And most important, it explains the origins of such states of mind and prescribes the means for cultivating those states which are rewarding and wholesome and of diminishing those which are unsatisfactory and unwholesome. It was to this second level that the Buddha gave greater emphasis and importance. For its truth is demonstrable within the realm of everyday human existence, and its validity is independent of any world view or belief about life after death.
However, as a means of introducing Buddhism to those who have little or no previous knowledge of the religion, this writing will give greater emphasis to the first level. The experiential and psychological aspects of the Teaching are outlined at the end.
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In this introduction we shall focus our attention on the teachings of the Buddha as preserved in the Pali language. These scriptural writings form the basis of the Theravada school of Buddhism which predominates in Burma, Thailand, Laos, Cambodia and Ceylon.
About the year 623 B.C., in a region which is now the land of Nepal, a son was born to King Suddhodana, ruler of the Sakya clan. The child was named Siddhattha Gotama, and his father surrounded him with vast stores of material wealth and luxury. Although the young prince was given an excellent education, King Suddhodana took measures to prevent the boy from learning of the misery and suffering which prevailed throughout the world. However, we are told that on a certain occasion young Siddhatha rode through the village streets and beheld a man old and decrepit; then he saw a man severely stricken with illness; and finally a dead man. Shocked by the cruel realities of life and moved by a deep compassion for the sufferings of humanity, the young prince abandoned the pleasures of his aristocratic heritage and went forth alone in search of truth and salvation.
First, he sought out the great spiritual teachers of his day and mastered their meditative exercises; however, he soon realized that trance states and mysticism are not the paths to salvation. Next, he undertook the disciplines of rigorous self-mortification, as was commonly practiced in ancient India. But asceticism proved to do little more than produce a weak and fragile body. Finally, after six long and strenuous years, he sat in quiet meditation beneath the now-famous Bodhi Tree. There, looking deep into the nature of his own being, he achieved a level of insight which few men have known. This he called Nirvana, and from that time forth he became known as “The Buddha” or “the Enlightened One”. The remaining 45 years of his life were dedicated to the service and instruction of his fellow beings.
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The Buddhist world view can best be understood if we see it as being based upon five major assumptions:
I. MUTABILITY or CHANGE
All objects, conditions and creations are regarded as being in a continuous state of change. Nothing finite is eternally fixed or unchanging. Birth, growth, decay and death are inevitable for all material objects, men, societies and states of mind. Herein lies the answer to the mystery of creation; new forms arise out of the old; each new condition is determined by that which preceded it.p_monk3.gif (13280 bytes)
II. CAUSE and EFFECT
This process of change, however, is not considered to be chaotic but rather is regulated by a universal Law of cause and effect. The laws of cause and effect are impersonal, impartial and unchanging. The only things which do not change are the laws of change.
III. SELFISHNESS and SUFFERING
The Law of cause and effect includes not only the laws of physics and chemistry so familiar to the Western world; it also includes laws of moral or psychological cause and effect known as kamma-vipaka, or more commonly, “karma
Karma acts through time, and thus the full effects of one’s thoughts and deeds may not become manifest until some years later. Karma is inescapable, for the Buddha said:
“Not in the sky, not in the midst of the sea, nor if we enter into the clefts of the mountains, is there known a spot in the whole world where a man might be freed from an evil deed.”
“Not in the sky, not in the midst of the sea, nor if we enter into the clefts of the mountains, is there known a spot in the whole world where death could not overcome a mortal.” (Dpd. 17-8)
One important aspect of the law of karma is that selfishness results in suffering for the selfish party in proportion to the amount of wrong that has been committed. Conversely, love, compassion and other virtuous states of mind create proportionate amounts of happiness and emotional well-being. Often this is stated as, “Desire is the cause of suffering”. And in this context the word which has been translated into English as “Suffering” is the Pali word DukkhaDukkha is a term which includes all types of unpleasant experiences such as worry, fear, sorrow, dissatisfaction, disharmony, etc. When the mind is craving pleasures or is strongly motivated by greed, hatred or egotism it becomes predisposed to dukkha. A paradox is noted in that happiness is best found by those who are not preoccupied with looking for it. Thus we find in Buddhism no eternal punishment or eternal reward, but rather happiness and sorrow in proportion to one’s own thoughts and actions.p_w09.JPG (36144 bytes)
Karma operates independently of any social mores or cultural standards of good and evil. Also, it does not account for all pleasure and displeasure, for the Buddha said that many of one’s pleasant and painful experiences are not the result of one’s previous actions. (Anguttra-Nikaya I, 173)
IV. NIRVANA (Nibbana)
Since all which is born must die, since all which is finite must change, the only thing immortal, infinite, and unchanging is that which was never born and is not compounded. This is Nirvana. But the Buddha talked relatively little about Nirvana. For since it is neither matter nor energy, and since it does not exist within space and time, it is completely unrelated to anything with which we are familiar. Thus, it cannot be described, conceptualized nor understood by the normal human mind. It is known only by direct experience beyond sense perception and is the end of all dukkha. When Nirvana is experienced, egotism has died, for Nirvana comes only with the abolition of all selfishness and craving. Yet one does not vegetate but continues to act and work as long as the body remains alive. This is Buddhist salvation, and it is found by the training of one’s mind and a maturing of the personality. Since it can never be known or comprehended except by direct experience, one should not concern oneself with looking for Nirvana per se, but rather one should seek to abolish selfishness from his own personality, and this is a rewarding endeavour regardless of whether or not the highest goal is reached. Said the Buddha:
“Liberated, the wise are indifferent to the senses, and have no need to seek anything; passionless they are beyond pleasure and displeasure.”
V. Finally,
it is stated that the above four premises can be verified by one’s own reasoning and experience with no dependence on external authority. In a Tibetan text the Buddha is quoted: “Just as people test the purity of gold by burning it in fire, by cutting it, by examining it on a touchstone, so exactly should you, my disciples, accept my words after subjecting them to a critical test and not out of reverence to me.”  
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On the basis of the above five postulates there develop a number of important ramifications:
1. Universality 
Truth is universal and unchanging; and thus, depends upon no one revelation or institution. The facts discovered by the Buddha are available for all to discover, and in this sense a man can be a Buddhist and never hear about the religion of Buddhism nor the teachings of the Buddha. The Buddha is quoted as saying: “It is certainly hard to change one’s set opinions, but a man should let himself freely test all philosophical systems, adopting and rejecting them as he sees fit. But the man who is wise no longer concerns himself with this or that system (of philosophy), he neither prides nor deceives himself. He goes along his independent way.”(Sutta-Nipata 785-786)p_w12.GIF (42266 bytes)
2. Unsupernatural
To one who accepts the teachings of the Buddha, rituals, offerings, prayer wheels and similar attempts to bring forth supernatural help are of virtually no value. The only value of prayer and homage to Buddha images is the humble and earnest state of mind which may be produced, for such a state of mind has great karmic value.
In the final stages of the path to Nirvana one must rely solely on one’s own efforts and not seek the aid of gods or men. The Buddha’s dying words were: “Decay is inherent in all compounded things. Strive on with mindfulness.” (Digha-Nikaya 11,156)
On an earlier occasion, he spoke: “The man enmeshed in delusion will never be purified through the mere study of holy books, or sacrifices to gods, or through fasts, or sleeping on the ground, or difficult and strenuous vigils, or the repitition of prayers. Neither gifts to priests, nor self-castigation, nor performance of rites and ceremonies can work purification in him who is filled with craving. It is not through the partaking of meat or fish that a man becomes impure, but through drunkenness, obstinacy, bigotry, deceit, envy, self-exaltation, disparagement of others and evil intentions--through these a man becomes impure.” (Fundamentals of Buddhism)
3. World View
The Universe (and all that is in it ) is ordered by impartial, unchanging laws. These laws have been operating throughout all time into the infinite past and will continue to operate into the infinite future. There never was a first beginning, and there never will be a final end. The Buddha further said that there are at least a billion other world-sun systems like our own, and as these grow old and die out new solar systems evolve and come into being. Yet unlike the laws of physics and chemistry, the course of events is not a blind matter of chance. Buddhism regards the Universe as a harmoniously functioning whole with a unity behind its diversity. Man was created by the laws of nature; the world was not created for man.
4. Worldliness and Other
Worldliness -- The world as such is not regarded as evil, but rather it is craving for the gross and subtle pleasures of material existence that Buddhism seeks to destroy. Thus when speaking of liberation, the Buddha meant freeing of the mind from enslaving passions and prejudices; not adhorrence for material existence per se. He also denounced self-torture. Consequently, the Buddha’s first sermon taught the Middle Way, which is avoiding the extremes of excessive sensual indulgence and asceticism.
Buddhist monks undertake to train themselves to give up all but a few necessary possessions in order that they may not be deceived by unconsciously clinging to worldly possessions. And since most of the Buddha’s teachings were directed to monks and nuns, the majority of recorded dialogues are concerned with the ideals of non-materialism and non-attachment. However, the Buddha recognized the needs of the lay people and gave them much advice also. He once said:
“The wise and virtuous shine like blazing fire. He who acquires wealth in harmless
  ways is like a bee that gathers honey.
  Riches mount up for him like an anthill’s rapid growth.
  With wealth acquired in this way, a layman fit for household life in portions four
  divides his wealth. Thus will he win friendship.
  One portion for his wants he uses (including charity).
  Two portions he spends on his business.
  A fourth he keeps for times of need.” (Digha-Nikaya lll,188)
5. Epistemology
To the Buddhist knowledge should be obtained through one’s own reasoning and experience. This is the same method as employed by modern science, except that Buddhism expands this to a study of one’s own mind, as well as a study of the world of sight and sound. Faith, scriptures, mysticism and revelations are not considered to be infallible roads to truth.
On one occasion the Enlightened One came to the village of Kesaputta where lived certain tribesmen known as the Kalamas. They knew the Buddha to be a renowned spiritual teacher and addressed him as follows:
“There are some monks and Brahmins, Venerable Sir, who visit Kessaputta. They illustrate and illuminate only their own doctrines; the doctrines of others they despise, revile and pull to pieces. Venerable Sir, there is doubt, there is uncertainty, in us concerning them. Which of these reverend monks and Brahmins spoke the truth and which falsehood?”
To this the Buddha replied:
“It is proper for you, Kalamas, to doubt, to be uncertain. Uncertainty has arisen in you about what is doubtful. Come, Kalamas. Do not go upon an authoritative tradition; nor upon what has been acquired by repeated hearing; nor upon rumour; nor upon what is in a scripture; nor upon speculative metaphysical theories, reasons and arguments; nor upon a point of view; nor upon specious reasoning; nor upon accepting a statement as true because it agrees with a theory that one is already convinced of; nor upon another’s seeming ability; nor upon the consideration ‘Our teacher says thus and so’. Kalamas, when you yourselves know: ‘These things are bad; these things are blamable; these things are censured by the wise; undertaken and observed, these things lead to harm and ill’, abandon them.” (Anguttara-Nikaya l,189)
6. Ethics
Buddhist ethics has two levels, a positive and a negative. Negatively it advocates the eradication of all greed, hatred and egotism from one’s mind. Positively, it advocates the cultivation and development of metta, compassion, sympathetic joy and equanimity as inherent aspects of one’s personality. “Metta” is a Pali word and is usually translated into English as “love”. However, in Pali there several words, each with different shades of meaning, all of which can be translated as “ love”. If we simultaneously think of the words “friendship”, “love” and “kindness”, we will have some understanding of the true meaning of “metta”.
In the Metta Sutta the Buddha is quoted:
“Just as a mother might protect from harm the son that was her only child, let all-embracing thoughts of love for every living thing be thine. An all-embracing love for all the universe, in all its heights and depth and breadth. An unstinted love, not marred by enmity.” (Sutta-Nip.149)
The Buddha was the first man in history known to have advocated the returning of good for evil:
“Hatred ceases not by hatred in this world. Through love it comes to an end. This is an ancient law.” (Dhammapada 5)
“Overcome anger by love, evil by good. Conquer the greedy with liberality and with truth the speaker of falsehoods.” (Dhammapada 223)
If one has truly removed all selfishness and developed love and compassion, there is no need for strict moral codes or other artificial rules of conduct. For such a person would never be inclined to do wrong, and thus his virtue would be natural and spontaneous rather than arbitrary and premeditated. Said the Buddha:
“Some there are who having taken vows and observing them think morality alone to be the highest and say that purity is achieved by restraint. They say ‘Here then let’s train; purity lies herein’. “If such a one has fallen away from some rule or ritual, having failed to do a certain performance, he is agitated, yearning all the time for purification; just as one who has lost his caravan while away from home.
“All rule and ritual left behind, all karma blamable and praiseworthy, not concerning himself with cleansing nor with stains may one freely fare.”
However, rules of ethics are of great value and importance to the majority of mankind. And thus, when speaking to lay people, the Enlightened One gave much practical advice, such as in the Sigalovada Sutta:
“In five ways, young householder, a child should minister to his parents:
1. Once supported by them I shall now be their support.
2. I shall perform duties incumbent on them.
3. I shall keep up the lineage and tradition of my family.
4. I shall make myself worty of my heritage.
5. Furthermore, I shall offer alms in honour of my departed relatives.”
“In five ways, young householder, parents thus ministered to by their children show their compassion:
1. They restrain them from evil.
2. They persuade them to do good.
3. They train them in a profession.
4. They contract a suitable marriage for them.
5. In due time, they hand over their inheritance to them.”
“In five ways should a master minister to his servants and employee:
1. By assigning them work according to their strength.
2. By supplying them with food and wages.
3. By tending them in sickness.
4. By sharing with them unusual delicacies.
5. By granting them leave at times.”
“Thus, ministered to as the zenith, the clergy show their compassion to the lay man in six ways:
1. They restrain him from evil.
2. They persuade him to do good.
3. They love him with kindly thoughts.
4. They make him hear what he has not heard.
5. They correct and purify what he has heard.
6. They reveal the path to a heavenly state.”
Action is precipitated by thought, and for this reason evil exists first in the mind. Consequently, Buddhism regards hatred, egotism and immoral intent as wrong as the actions which they may or may not produce. In fact, Buddhist ethics are not founded upon obedience to a set of commandments, but rather they are based upon a true insight into the hazards of greed, hatred and delusion and the inherent values of love, equanimity and compassion. Consequently the words “good” and “evil” in Buddhism do not carry the same connotations of shame and guilt as in the West. In fact the Buddha often avoided the words “good” and “evil” and instead used “wholesome” and “unwholesome” or “desirable” and “undesirable”.
7. Society
Buddhists are taught not to depend on the arbitrary customs, traditions and mores of society to find truth, happiness and well-being; nor should they look to society to find a code of ethics. This, however, does not imply a total apathy toward social organizations. The Buddha not only taught against the inequalities of the caste system, but also was the first person in history known to have advocated the abolition of slavery.
For over 2,000 years, Buddhists have built hospitals and resthouses, while Buddhist rulers have, in the name of their religion, drained swamps, built wells and carried out other measures in the interest of public welfare.
On the subject of illness, the Buddha said:
“Whosoever, brethren, would wait upon me, whosoever, brethren, would honour me, whosoever, brethren, would follow my advice, he should wait upon the sick.”(Vinaya Mahavagga)
And regarding the caste system he taught:
“Not by birth is one an outcast.
Not by birth is one a noble.
But by deeds is one an outcast.
And by deeds is one a noble.” (Sutta-Nip. 136)
8. Psychology
Since all finite creations must perish, since all which is born must die, no-where in man is there to be found an immortal soul. Instead, Buddhism regards the human personality as a functioning aggregate of sensations, memories, perceptions and concepts all manifesting on a background of consciousness. The only thing which is regarded as immortal is that which is never born, is not finite and not personal; this is Nirvana.
9. Death
If there is no soul, does Buddhism then teach that death is the termination of all conscious existence? This question cannot be answered by a simple “yes” or “no”.
It is not strictly true that Buddhism teaches reincarnation, nor does is advocate an absolute annihilation. Rather, it takes a position some place between these two extremes. The Buddha was born a Hindu, and in the Hindu religion each conscious being is regarded as having a soul. Each soul is a manifestation of the great Universal Soul which the Hindus call Brahma or God. Brahma is the Absolute, the basis of all creation, and the ultimate goal of the finite soul is to return and unite with Brahma. This union with Brahma is the Hindu conception of Nirvana and is achieved after many reincarnations. With each new life the soul learns new lessons; sins, suffers from its sins, and goes to the next life somewhat better than before. At last it is purified of all selfishness, attains Nirvana, and is no longer reborn.
In reply to the question, “What will happen to me when I die?” The Buddha might answer, “What are you?” For the word “I” or “self” includes not one thing but many. Death, of course, means the cessation of all bodily functioning. What then becomes of the mind? With our modern knowledge of neurophysiology, there can be little question that most, if not all, of the things we call mental activities are directly dependent upon the electrochemical workings of the brain. When the brain ceases to function, sensations, perceptions, thoughts and consciousness come to an end.
Buddhism teaches that mind without matter is an impossibility; a body is a prerequisite for consciousness. However, it also teaches that a body alone is not enough. There is a nonphysical aspect of the human psyche which must be present before consciousness can occur. This nonphysical aspect of the mind is referred to as the bhavanga-sota or subconscious life-stream. It is said to survive the death of the body and then manifest in a new body.
The nature of this bhavanga-sota is peculiar to each individual and is the percipitate of his former actions and experiences. Each person has his or her own inherent blend of conscious and subconscious tendencies; e.g., pride, an interest in music, an aptitude for art, a love of nature, feelings of insecurity, and so on. Each of these carries with it its own karma. Selfish tendencies carry with them the karma of selfishness which is suffering (i.e., dukkha) in proportion to the amount of wrong that has been previously committed. The condition in which each man finds himself is the result of his own former thoughts and deeds. His present behavior is what will determine his future state. Thus, each man makes his own destiny.
The bhavanga-sota is, like all other finite creations, constantly in an evolving, changing state, acquiring new attributes while abandoning or modifying old ones. Such changes are identical with the changes in one’s personality. As most people go through life they are influenced by their families, societies and other features of their environments to the degree that they become products of their environments. As a result, the development of their personalities is largely a matter of chance. The purpose of Buddhism is to guide and direct the development of one’s personality so that such development is no longer a matter of chance. Niravna is the ultimate goal in this process of maturation, and with Nirvana rebirth comes to an end.
“What is it, Venerable Sir, that will be reborn?”
“A psycho-physical combination, O King, is the answer.”
But how, Venerable Sir? Is it the same psycho-physical combination as this present one?”
“No, O King. But the present psycho-physical combination produces karmically wholesome and unwholesome volitional activities, and through such Karma a new psycho-physical combination will be reborn.” (Milinda-Panha 46)
A man’s conscious memories, his present self-concept, his views and attitudes toward his own existence, his specific prejudices and his beliefs and opinions will perish with the body. Consequently, one could never say that the same person will live again.
10. Knowledge and Intelligence
On this matter, the Buddha said:
“In a man can become pure simply by changing his views, if by mere knowledge he can be freed of sorrow, then something other than the Noble Eightfold Path makes pure and puts an end to sorrow. But this cannot be.” (Sutta-Nipata 789)
The understanding of only a few important facts is necessary for salvation. One can go on indefinitely acquiring facts and yet never achieve the understanding which leads to Nirvana. Thus, knowledge of oneself is more important than knowledge of the world. Said the Buddha:
“It is not from views, from tradition, from mere knowledge, nor from virtue and achievement, that purity is attained, Magandiya. Nor is it from being without views, without tradition, without knowledge, without virtue or achievement that purity is attained.” (Sutta-Nipata 839)
Intelligence, like knowledge, is regarded as a valuable tool, a means to an end but not an end in itself. In the final analysis reality transcends normal human understanding, and thus one of the highest achievements of the intellect is seen when it points beyond itself to reality.
11. Discipline
Said the Buddha: “Though he may conquer a thousand thousand men in battle, greater still is the man who conquers himself.”
Discipline is essential. Only through persistent self-discipline, said the Buddha, can one overcome passions and sloth and eventually achieve Nirvana. Yet, though a man must purify himself, he cannot take himself to Nirvana; for Nirvana is beyond the realm of finite human endeavour, and becomes manifest of its own when one has finally broken the bonds of attachment. Again the Buddha is quoted:
“He who does not rouse himself when it is time to rise, who, though young and strong, is full of sloth, whose will and thought are weak, that lazy idle man never finds the way to wisdom.” (Dpd. 280).
12. As an Institution
Buddhism regards itself as a group of important truths, which, when properly understood, can be of great value to almost any human being. It is important that these teachings become institutionalized and an indigenous part of a society, for there is no other way that they can reach all levels of humanity and also last for a period of many generations. In addition, if such a teaching does not exist, intolerant ideologies, superstitions and erroneous theologies will necessarily arise to satisfy the spiritual needs of a given culture. At one time the Enlightened One spoke:
“Released am I, monks, from ties both human and divine. You also are delivered from fetters human and divine. Wander for the welfare and happiness of many, out of compassion for the world, for the gain, for the welfare and happiness of gods and men. Proclaim the Teaching excellent in the beginning, excellent in the middle and excellent in the end, in the spirit and in the letter. Proclaim ye the life of consummate purity.” (Vinaya Mahav.)
On the other hand, once a man becomes concerned with Buddhism as an institution and works for this as his primary cause, he has lost sight of the fact that truth is universal. The word “Buddhism” is only a symbol which represents certain beliefs and concepts. These truths could be equally as well represented by some other word, institution, or symbol. Once we become prejudiced towards Buddhism, we cease to be Buddhists in the true sense of the word. Each Buddhist has the opportunity to give his knowledge to others. It is not really necessary that he gives it to them under the name of Buddhism, but to do so helps to insure an embodiment of this knowledge and thus advances the opportunity for it to be acquired by others. In Digha - Nikaya I the Buddha said:
“Monks, if others were to speak against me, or against the Teaching, or against our monastic order, you need not on that account entertain thoughts of ill-will and spite, and be dissatisfied with them. If you do harbour hatred that will not only impede your mental development, but you will also fail to judge how far that speech is right or wrong. But also, monks, if others speak highly of me , highly of the Teaching and our monastic order, you need not on that account be elated; for that too will mar your inner development. You should acknowledge what is right and show the truth of what has been said.”
To its credit, Buddhism can claim that in the 2,500 years of its history, it has not burned one witch, fought one holy war nor destroyed heretics.
However, no religion can exist for long among millions of people without undergoing some change and corruption. Prayer wheels, the worship of images and the offerings to the Buddha are all examples of this. Also, later Buddhists, especially in China and Japan, created many legendary stories about the Buddha and his teachings. Nirvana was replaced by a glorious heaven where the Lord Buddha sits on His throne, and faith became more important than understanding.
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The most fundamental and important aspect of human existence is not one’s beliefs, nor social status, nor intellect, nor material possessions; rather it is motives, emotions, feelings. Almost by definition it is feelings, and feelings alone, which give purpose, meaning, value and significance to our every action and encounter. Without feeling or motives there would be no incentive for one to think, speak or act; life would be chronic apathy. Yet some feelings are more rewarding, wholesome and meaningful than others. And quite often feelings (be they mental or physical) are unpleasant, empty, sorrowful, disharmonious, worrisome, irritating, frustrating or in some way of negative value; in other words, dukkha.p_w04.gif (40326 bytes)
Thus the Buddha summarized his doctrine into the Four Noble Truths, which are:
  1. Dukkha (i.e., suffering), in all its varied forms is an inherent and universal aspect of conscious existence.
  2. The cause of this suffering is desire or craving. (Desire is this sense should not be confused with the simple recognition of a pleasurable or happy experience. The recognition and acceptance of such an experience is not in itself unwholesome; rather the danger arises from craving or attachment to such an experience.)
  3. There is an end of dukkha which man can realize.
  4. This end of suffering is achieved by means of following the Noble Eightfold Path.
However, it is not the mere attainment of a blissful existence which should motivate one towards moral behavior. On this matter the Buddha said:
“To be seized by spirits (allegorically) means living a virtuous or religious life chiefly in the hope of being born, as a result of one’s merit, in a heavenly world, as an angel, or a divine being (and this is to be avoided.)”
The Noble Eightfold Path consists of :
  1. Right Understanding--the development and application of one’s intellectual capabilities for the sake of understanding and resolving the problems of selfishness and suffering.
  2. Right Thought--thoughts free from lust, thoughts free from ill-will and thoughts free from cruelty.
  3. Right Speech--to abstain from harsh language, lying and vain talk.
  4. Right Action--to abstain from killing, stealing, intoxicating drink and sexual misconduct. (For monks complete celibacy is expected; laymen are advised to abstain from adultery or other inappropriate sexual behavior.)
  5. Right Livelihood--the avoidance of any occupation which leads to harm or undesirable conduct such as dealing in intoxicating drinks, slavery or murder weapons.
  6. Right Effort--the exertion of one’s will and self-discipline to develop wholesome mental states and overcome unwholesome states.
  7. Right Mindfulness--This is probably the most important and profound aspect of Buddhist mental development and includes a variety of different meditation practices and psychological techniques. Such practices and techniques are varied according to one’s individual spiritual needs and personality structure and include developing awareness of unconscious motives and impulses.
  8. Right Concentration--the training of the mind to remain concentrated on a single object and not wander from thought to thought.
These steps are not taken one at a time, but rather are worked on simultaneously in the maturation of one’s personality. No man finds Nirvana overnight, and to rigidly force oneself to abandon all worldly conduct before one is capable of such a step can be as undesirable as clinging to habits of excessive sensual indulgence. In the words of the Buddha:

मी भारतीय म्हणूनच जगेन



मी भारतीय म्हणूनच जगेन

मला तर कित्येकदा भारतीय संस्कृती नेमकं कशाला म्हणावं तेच कळत नाही. एकीकडून रामभक्तीचे सुंदर उमाळे काढणारा तुळसीदास ' ढोरं , गॅंवार , शूद्र , पशु , नारी , ये सब ताडनके अधिकारी ' म्हणतो , म्हणजे संत तुळशीदासांच्या मताने गुरं , खेडवळ माणसं , इतर पशू आणि स्त्रिया ह्मा फक्त चोप खाण्याच्याच लायकीच्या आहेत!

बायकांना नव-यांनी लाथाबुक्क्यांचा प्रसाद देण्याच्या बाबतीत आपल्या देशातल्या लक्षावधी खेड्यांत सर्वधर्मसमभाव आहे. खुद्द दिल्लीतही आपल्या बायकांना फारशा न्यायबुद्धीनं वागवतातच असं नाही. पुष्कळदा मला वाटतं की ह्मा देशात फक्त पुरुषाला स्वातंत्र्य मिळालं आहे. स्त्रिया पारतंत्रातच आहेत. अशा ह्मा आपल्या देशात भारतीयत्वाचा विचार रुजवायचा आहे.

' उपकार म्हणून तुम्हाला ह्मा देशात राहू देतो ' ही वृत्ती जशी हिंदूंनी सोडायला हवी तशीच कालबाह्म झालेल्या आणि देशाला पोषक नसलेल्या रुढींच्या उच्चाटनाचं काम करायला मुसलमान आणि इतर धर्मीयांनीही आपल्यातील भारतीयत्वाला अग्रक्रम द्यायला हवा.

हमीद दलवाईंच्या अनुभवांवरुन मुसलमानात हे विचारपरिवर्तनाचं कार्य किती अवघड आहे हे ध्यानात येतं. इतर धर्मांत आणि जातींत ते सोपं आहे असं नाही. वास्तविक माणसांत देवाला पाहणाऱ्या भटजी , मुल्ला , शेख यांच्या संकुचितपपणाविरुद्ध पूर्वीपासून आमच्या भारतीय संतांनी झोड उठवलेली आहे.

' मुल्ला होकर बांग पुकारे वह क्या साहब बहिरा है ?' असा सवाल कबीरानं केला आहे. महाकवी गालिबनं तर देव फक्त मशिदीतच नसतो हे ठसवण्यासाठी शेखजींना म्हटलं आहे की ' शेखजी मला मशिदीत बसून पिऊ दे , वर्ना ऐसी जगह बताव जहॉं खुदा नही! ' आमचे तुकोबा विचारतात , ' ऐसे कैसे रे सोवळे , शिवता होतसे ओवळे ?' ह्मा सर्व मंडळींची देवावरची श्रद्धा कमी प्रतीची होती असं कोण म्हणेल ?

त्यांनी ते देवत्व माणसांत पाहिलं. कलेच्या ख-या उपासकाला आणि रसिकाला तर राष्ट्रीयतेचं कुंपण देखील संकुचित वाटतं. मग धार्मिक कुंपणांची तर गोष्टच नको. म्हणूनच केशवसुतांनी ' ब्राह्मण नाही हिंदुही नाही , न मी एक पंथाचा | तेच पतति की जे आखडती प्रदेश साकल्याचा | खादाड असे माझी भूक | चतकोराने मला न सुख , कूपातिल मी नच मंडूक | मळ्यास माझ्या कुंपण पडणे अगदी न मला साहे | कोण मला वठणीवर आणू शकतप ते मी पाहे ' असं विचारलं आहे.

मुखमें रामनाम बगलमे छुरी , ह्मा तत्वाचं आचरण करणा-याविरुद्ध प्रत्येक काळांतले साहित्यिक , कवी आणि कलावंत उभे राहिलेले आहेत. मुस्लिम धर्मांधतेविरुद्ध प्रेममार्ग सांगणारे सुफी उभे राहिले , जातिभेदाचं पोषण करणा-याविरुद्ध रामी धोबिणीबरोबर संसार करणारा ब्राह्मण चंडिदास ' सर्वांहून श्रेष्ठ माणूस त्याहून श्रेष्ठ कोणीही नाही ' असं सांगत उभा राहिला.

यज्ञामुळे होणारी भरमसाठ पशुहत्या आपल्या देशातली शेती धोक्यात आणीत होती. त्याविरुद्ध गौतमबुद्ध प्रज्ञा आणि करुणेचा संदेश घेऊन उभे राहिले. बुद्धीला सतेज ठेवून प्रज्ञा आणि प्रत्यक्ष वृतीतून जी सिद्ध होते त्या करूणेचा मार्ग प्रमाण मानून ही एकात्मता साधायची आहे. रवीन्द्रनाथांनी त्याला ' मानुषेर धर्म माणसाचा धर्म ' म्हटलं आहे ज्या रुढी आपल्यांत दूरत्व निर्माण करतात त्या दूर सारुन ह्मा प्रज्ञा आणि करुणेच्या मार्गानंच भारतीयांची एकात्मता साधली जाईल.

' नान्य: पंथा अथ:नाय विद्यते '- दुसरा कुठलाच मार्ग यासाठी नाही ' समाजाच्या ऐहिक अभ्युदयासाठी ज्यांना तन देता येईल त्यांनी तन , धन देता येईल त्यांनी धन आणि सर्वात महत्वाचं म्हणजे सर्वांशी युक्त केल्यामुळे मुक्त झालेलं मन देण्याची ही एक ऐतिहासिक महत्वाची घडी आलेली आहे.

' हिंदू म्हणून जन्माला आलो तरी मी हिंदू म्हणूनच मरणार नाही ' असं म्हणून आंबेडकरांनी धर्माचं प्रवर्तन केलं. कुठल्याही धर्माचा किंवा प्रांताचा माझ्यावर शिक्का असला तरी मी भारतीय म्हणूनच जगेन , अशा विचारचक्र प्रवर्तनाचं हे कार्य आहे आणि ते होणं ही आजच्या काळातली भारताची सर्वांत मोठी गरज आहे....

( राष्ट्रीय एकात्मता परिषदेतील भाषण)

Wednesday 18 July 2012



Seeing Kundali (Horoscope) is itself a blind belief.
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(Ref. : Samrat, Marathi Daily from Bombay, 30th June 2004, Author: Milind Rupawate, Secretary of Atta Deepa Bhava (Buddhist’s) Marriage Bureau, Mumbai, Cell No. 0-9821249416. Translated by Chakradhar Hadke
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My friend who hailed from Chamar community, had a daughter, named Malini. She was 20 years old. She attended many marriages, as such she also dreamt to have her luxurious marriage. As she attained age of marriage, her parents, brother, brother-in-law etc. were trying their best to arrange her marriage. Likewise I had also contacted some acquainted boys from Chamar community. Many boys came from various channels and from various destinations. She was slim, white, and beautiful and there was no reason at all to reject her by any boys on ground of her physical features. But alas, her marriage got postponed several times and not set because of the existing old-aged traditions/blind beliefs which is main impediment/hurdle in marriage i.e. Viewing Kundali (Horoscope), karmakands etc. As a result her age had grown much beyond marriage age. As her age was grown, many behavioral changes occurred which were quite natural/inevitable. She gave up laughing, talkative and friendly nature and she became grave at her disposition. She disbelieved that though these people are of mine; but they are not able to arrange my marriage. Though my parents, brothers, brother-in-laws, sisters and other relatives emphasis anybody for my marriage, all their efforts are futile/useless. This is because her brother prepared her horoscope from a brahmin just before attainment of her marriage age. This horoscope was shown to everybody who came for intention of marriage; but mismatch of her horoscope with counterpart, attributed no setting of her marriage. She had a Mangal prone horoscope which is generally believed as bad-omen, which is it self a big blind-belief prevailing in the community since ages. Though Malini is graduate and employee of good company, she could not get married because of this bad omen horoscope. Hence it was very difficult to see worsened mentality of Malini, all were helpless in this regard. In between her 20 to 30 years, as many as 16 boys had looked her for marriage, but futile due to horoscope’s hurdle. She used to be worried for rejecting her by 16 boys within span of 10 years. She used to worship god with full devotion. She also used to perform lot of traditional rituals and festivals etc. Yet she was worried why her marriage cannot be set. So she was treating herself that some sort of fault in her birth. Every year she used to keep commitment (navas) with god/godess, for she used to offer lemon, coconut, prey of cocks and goats, fasting on every occasion in a hope that she could marry one day. Her family members were also happy for her worshipping and other commitment to appease gods/goddesses so that her will of marriage would be fulfilled, though it was blind belief which has no relation with authentic/reality of actual life.
Malini had to cross her 32 years age. Then I (author) asked her brother and her family members that, her age is knowingly or unknowingly growing, so when do you arrange her marriage? All family members saw me angrily and scolded her that she had a Mangal in her horoscope. Then what is our fault that we are not able to set her marriage?. I said to them, “ I saw her in front of my eyes growing right from her childhood and hitherto. I am just like her elder brother. But in our middle religion comes across. I am Ambedkarite Buddhist. And you people are less Ambedkarites and more rite-ritual (karmakand) prone. If you do not have any objection, I can set her marriage from my community. At my behest, many boys can be ready to marry her.” On hearing me, they displeased and annoyed on me very much and as a result, we both families made this incidence to stop talking and going to each other’s house. Thus our friendship broke up for one year.
One day Malini suddenly met me in market. She loudly asked me to stop as she had to speak something. But I neglected her and started going away. She again shouted Brother! Brother! Requesting me to stop for a while, she had to speak something urgent. Then I stopped and asked as to why did she stop me? “What is your problem? What do you want to say ? Make haste and tell quickly as I don’t have time?”. She told, “Brother, please don’t get annoyed or impatient. I am faulty by birth. Our family is not like your as you people have come out of blind beliefs. We are not so hitherto. So I have arrived to a decision that you may please help me to come out of this vicious orbit of “Mangal”-prone horoscope and direct me to real “Mangal” i.e. welfare.” She was saying so with tearful eyes. I am rather surprised to listen her that she started knowing difference between beliefs and blind beliefs. Yet, I told her, “I am in hurry. Please tell me quickly.” She told, “Dear Brother, please set my marriage. I will not oppose your decision. You are more near to me than my family members. On telling she became rather sentimental and overwhelmed. I called on her to my residence next day. Accordingly she came to me. I told her, I will set your marriage within six months and that is final. But my one condition is that I should change your horoscope first. So you must make a vow before me that this must remain confidential. She voluntarily agreed for, then I left. Next day I met my astrologer friend. I gave him Malini’s horoscope and requested to change it in such a way that she would marry without hindrance. The astrologer got afraid at first. I encouraged him that if anything untoward happens and any sin is there in doing so, I am ready to shoulder the sins. Let the sin of changing horoscope be accounted on me only. After repeated persuasion, he finally agreed and prepared new horoscope of our choice. I got the horoscope from the astrologer friend after 15 days. I called Malini on phone to be ready to enroll her name in matrimonial bureau of chamar community at Borivali. I told her to bring photograph along with. Accordingly we went there and enroller her name as marriage candidate and attached the new horoscope along with the application form. I mentioned address of correspondence of my home on her behalf. What’s a miracle! Many letters started flooding at my home. Out of them I liked a boy. He was alone a son of his old parents. He had one sister who was already married with a Buddhist and she was happy. Old parents and the son was only the family i.e. small family and small family was my preference. So I propose the boy for Malini. She conceded/agreed for the proposal voluntarily. On 3rd day, viewing program was completed in my house. The boy’s name was Ganesh. Within 8 days, Ganesh responded positively i.e. Yes to the proposal. Ganesh stated that both horoscopes matched exactly. So let us conduct marriage ceremony in March. I told this good news to Malini. Then I took a step, keeping aside ego, and went to Konkan to bring Malini’s father to Mumbai for preparatory work of marriage ceremony of his daughter Malini. I persuaded Malini’s brother and mother to attend the marriage. Yet, I kept secret about change of her horoscope. Next formalities i.e. marriage meetings and other transactions as per traditions were done at Malini’s house. And at a relevant time, the marriage ceremony was finished successfully without hindrance.
After 2 years of her marriage I went to see Malini’s in-laws, parents and other relatives were happy though erstwhile they were hating Malini for her horoscope. But they did not know how this happy event came to happen. Then I decided myself to reveal the fact about horoscope. Then I said calmly, “ I am your culprit, please excuse me. Before marriage I showed fake horoscope and real horoscope is this one, you see.” Then Ganesh and other members were overwhelmed and hugged me patiently and blessed me and told, “ You have not made any mistake at all. But on the contrary we all had mistaken. We are ignorant, blind belief-prone, god believer and festival celebrators on various occasions throughout years. This is our civilization.” By saying so, they put sweet (Barphy) in my mouth. Rohidas was awakened in them. Then Ganesh at once said, “Buddha is guide of Rohidas. Henceforth we shall tread on path of Buddha and Rohidas”. By taking vow from them, I left. Till today I remember this bitter fact of life, though it is now old story.
Ganesh and Malini started their life from a hutment (chawl); but today they have 1000 sq.ft. flat in western suburban of Mumbai. They have an elder daughter and a younger son. On seeing this I am indeed extremely happy and accomplished one. This change has been attributed to teachings of Rashtra Saint – Rohidas and the Buddha which directed them from bad omen Mangal (Planet – horoscope) to god omen Mangal.

Friday 13 July 2012




रामदासाला छत्रपती शिवाजी राजांचे गुरु बनवायचेच असा ठेका घेतलेल्या स. कृ. जोशीचे 'जय जय रघुवीर समर्थ' पुस्तक वाचले.. 'जिवाशिवाची भेट' ह्या पाठात शिवाजी राजे आणि रामदास याचं वर्णन अतिशय खोडसाळपणाने मांडण्याचा प्रयत्न केला आहे.. आक्षेपार्ह मुद्दे,
१. शिवबांची स्वामींच्या दर्शनाची तळमळ वाढली होती. शिवबांना समर्थ दिसले. शिवबा जागे झाले तर ते एक मधुर स्वप्न. स्वामी नाही नि कुणी नाही. पण स्वप्नात स्वामींनी नारळ दिला होता तो मात्र हातात खरोखरीचा होता. (८५)
२. शिंगणवाडीत दोघांची शेवटची भेट झाली असे दिले आहे.. आणि नंतर ४ भेटी दाखवण्यात आल्या आहेत..(८६)
३. कारंजा येथे समर्थांनी शिवाजी राजांच्या खांद्यावर भिक्षेची झोळी दिली आणि शिवाजी राजांना वैरागी होऊन भिक्षा मागणे खूप आवडले, राजांनी आयुष्यभर भिक्षा मागू इच्छिले..(९७)
४. याच भेटीवेळी रामदासाने शिवाजी राजांना स्वराज्याचा झेंडा भगवा लावण्याचा उपदेश केला म्हणे (९८).. पण राजांनी त्याआधीच तोरणा, कोंढाणा असे अनेक किल्ली जिंकून तिथे भगवा फडकवला होता. असे एक ना अनेक आक्षेपार्ह मुद्दे आहेत..

5. सर्वात महत्वाचे, रामदासलिखित दासबोधात कुठेही शिवाजी राजांचा नावे उल्लेख नाही..
फक्त राजा मग तो कुठलाही असो.. त्या राजाला दिलेले उपदेश आहेत.. एका राजाने कसे राहावे, अडचणीच्या वेळी कुठले निर्णय कसे घ्यावे, लोकांशी कसे तारतम्य ठेवावे, राजाने राज्यकारभार कसा हाकावा,,, असे.
उदा.
आधी मनुष्य ओळखावे | योग्य पाहुनी काम सांगावे
निकामी तरी ठेवावे | एकीकडे ||
मनुष्य राजी राखणे | हीच भाग्याची लक्षणे
काठीणपणे दुरी धरणे | काही एक ||
किंवा
अनीतीने स्वार्थ पाहे, राजा पापी होऊन राहे | राज्यांती नर्क आहे ||

हा राजाला (मग तो कुठलाही असो) दिलेले उपदेश आहेत.. तिथे स. कृ. जोशीने कुठलाही राजा म्हणजे छत्रपती शिवाजीच असे एकहाती वर्णन करून कल्पनारूपी इतिहास मांडण्याचा असफल प्रयत्न केला आहे.
पुस्तकाला कुठलाही संदर्भ दिलेला नाही.. स.कृ.जोशीने असेच लिखाण इतर ७ पुस्तकांतून करून रामदासाला शिवाजी राजांचे गुरु बनवण्याचा प्रयत्न करू पहिला..

गरज आहे ती असल्या काल्पनिक इतिहासावर बंदी आणण्याची. भंपकपणे रंगवलेल्या कल्पनारूपी भाकडकथा म्हणजे इतिहास नसतो.. मी इतिहासाची व्याख्या दोन शब्दात 'भूतकाळातील वास्तव' अशी सांगेन.

Monday 9 July 2012

Birthday Wishesh
















May every glowing candle on your cake transorm into a wish that will turn into reality. Happy Birthday to you!



I gotta feeling that tonight's gonna be a good night! Birthdays don't come everyday, so make it a day that will go down in history!



You think you're special because its your birthday today? That's complete nonsense... You're special every day! Have a rocking day!



On your birthday, let's promise to make this year even more fun. Have a superb birthday and a fantastic year ahead of you.



Today is the best day of the year because you were born on this day. I wish you a thunderous Happy Birthday!



Say cheers to life and have a Happy Birthday! I wish you the double of the best of everything!



As you start another fantastic year of your life, we wish that all your dreams come true. Have a great birthday and a smashing year ahead.



Happy Birthday to you! May you have a million moments of joy, a million moments of love, a million moments of pure happiness and a million moments of good health and wealth.



Let's celebrate this special day of your life! May your home always be too small to hold all your friends.



Happy Birthday! Wishin' you a pot o' gold, and all the joy your heart can hold.



On this birthday of yours, let's celebrate how much life has taught you and how far you still have to go. Make the best of what you've got!



May your day be super bright and super special! Wishing you the happiest of birthdays.



Your birthday only comes around once a year so let's make today a day to remember. Wishing you Many Happy Returns of the day.




तलवार एक धारी तर भीम दुधारी होता ,





एकटाच भीम माझा लाखांना भारी होता ,





साऱ्या पुढार्यांना भीमाचा धाक होता ,





कारण भीमराव माझा बापाचा बाप होता ....
 

रमाई म्हणजे .........!!!


रमाई म्हणजे .........!!!


रमाई म्हणजे .........!!! 
रमाई साठी काय लिहू...रमाई साठी कसे लिहू...?
रमाई साठी पुरतील एवढे..शब्द नाहीत कोठे...!!!
रमाई वरती लिहीण्याइतपत...नाही माझे व्यक्तिमत्व मोठे...!!!
रमाई तू बाबांची सावली...रमाई तू आमची माऊली...!!!
रमाई तू थंडीतली शाल... .रमाई तू दु:खे सोसली खुशाल...!!!
आठवतं यशवंत तापाने फणफणायचा तेव्हां...
तू रात्रभर कपाळावर घड्या घालायचीस...
सर्वत्र दिवे मिणमिणू लागायचे, तरी...
तुझ्या डोळ्यातली ज्योत एकटीच लढायची...!!!
अस्तित्वाचं इथे नांदणं आहे...
संस्कारांच्या असंख्य चांदण्यांनी
हृदयाच्या आभाळभर गोंदणं आहे...!!!
रमाई, लाख यत्न होतील मज कडून...
तुझं देणं मिटणार नाही...!!!
रमाई, हजार प्रयत्‍न केले तरी...
एका जन्माचे ऋण फीटणार नाही...!!!


साहेबांची रमा .........!!!  
डॉ. बाबासाहेब आंबेडकर यांच्या वैवाहिक जीवनाची सुरुवातीची वर्षे अत्यंत हलाखिमध्ये व गरिबीत गेली. त्यांच्या पत्‍नी रमाबाई मोठ्या उदार मनाच्या व पतीला सदोदित साथ देणार्‍या होत्या. दलित-बहुजन समाजाला न्याय्य हक्क मिळवून देण्यासाठी बाबासाहेबांनी सुरू केलेल्या अथक संघर्षामुळे बाबासाहेब स्वता:च्या प्रपंचाकडे फारसे लक्ष देऊ शकले नाहीत. पण, आपल्या पत्‍नीवर त्यांचे अपार प्रेम होते. बाबासाहेबांच्या पत्नी रमाबाई व त्यांचे ३५ वर्षांचे सहजीवन,  रमाबाईंनी आपल्याला सांभाळले, कुटुंबवत्सल असलेले बाबासाहेब समाजाच्या हितासाठी किती तळमळत होते आणि त्यामुळे त्यांची कुचंबणा कशी होत होती, याची सारखी जाणीव त्यांना राहत होती.


डॉ. बाबासाहेब आंबेडकर आपल्या कुटुंबीयांसह "राजगृह' या आपल्या सुंदर व प्रशस्त वास्तूत राहण्यास आले होते. डॉ. आंबेडकरांनी तीन-तीन खोल्यांचे दोन ब्लॉक्स राजगृहाच्या तळमजल्यावर बांधून घेतले होते. त्या दोन ब्लॉक्समध्ये त्यांनी आपल्या कुटुंबीयांच्या राहण्याची व्यवस्था केली होती. राजगृहाच्या पहिल्या मजल्यावर डॉ.बाबासाहेबांनी स्वत:च्या राहण्याच्या सोयीबरोबरच आपल्या प्रिय ग्रंथालयाची आणि कार्यालयाचीही सोय केली होती. त्यांनी स्वत: आराखडा तयार करून त्याप्रमाणे सोयी करून घेतल्या होत्या.

आर्थिक स्थिती थोडी बरी झाल्यामुळे १९३० मध्ये त्यांनी दादरच्या हिंदू कॉलनीत ९९ आणि १२९ क्रमांकांचे प्लॉट विकत घेऊन ठेवले होते. त्यांनी पाचव्या गल्लीतील १२९ क्रमांकाच्या प्लॉटवर आपल्या कुटुंबीयांबरोबर राहण्यासाठी इमारत बांधण्याचे ठरविले होते. आणि तिसर्‍या गल्लीतील ९९ क्रमांकाच्या प्लॉटवर भाड्याने देण्यासाठी इमारत बांधण्याचे ठरविले होते. त्यासाठी त्यांनी सेंट्रल बॅंक ऑफ इंडियाकडून कर्ज घेतले होते. त्यांनी १९३१ च्या जानेवारी महिन्यात १२९ क्रमांकाच्या प्लॉटवर राहण्याच्या वास्तूचे बांधकाम सुरू केले. ते बांधकाम १९३३ मध्ये पूर्ण होऊन "राजगृह' ही राहण्याची वास्तू तयार झाली. प्लॉट क्रमांक ९९ वर दुसर्‍या इमारतीचे बांधकाम १९३२ मध्ये सुरू झाले. ते बांधकाम पूर्ण झाल्यावर त्यांनी त्या इमारतीचे नाव "चार मिनार' असे ठेवले. "राजगृह' हे नाव हिंदू संस्कृती आणि बौद्ध संस्कृतीशी संबंधित होते, तर "चार मिनार'हे नाव मुस्लिम संस्कृतीशी संबंधित होते. पुढे ग्रंथांच्या खरेदीच्या आणि इतर गोष्टींच्या कर्जाची फेड करण्यासाठी ९ मे १९४१ रोजी त्यांनी "चार मिनार' ही इमारत विकली. मात्र "राजगृह' ही वास्तू त्यांनी कायम आपल्या मालकीची ठेवली.

"राजगृह' या आपल्या मालकीच्या प्रशस्त वास्तूत राहण्यास आल्याचा रमाबाईंना व सर्वांनाच अतिशय आनंद झाला. ते सर्व जण पोयबावाडीच्या चाळीतील भाड्याच्या खोल्यांतून आपल्या स्वत:च्या राजगृहात राहण्यास आले होते, याचा त्यांना अत्यानंद होणे स्वाभाविक आहे! त्या अत्यानंदातही रमाबाई पोयबावाडीच्या चाळीतील स्त्रियांना कधी विसरल्या नाहीत. रमाबाई आपुलकीने त्या स्त्रियांना भेटण्यास जात असत आणि त्यांना आपल्या घरी येण्याचे आमंत्रण देत असत. रमाबाई म्हणजे मूर्तिमंत माणुसकीच होत्या. प्रेमळ व कष्टाळू रमाबाई आपुलकीने माणसे जोडण्यात आणि समाजसेवेला पूर्णपणे वाहून घेतलेल्या आपल्या प्रिय पतीच्या पाठीशी मोठ्या विश्वासाने खंबीरपणे उभे राहण्यात पारंगत होत्या. हा त्यांचा सद्गुणच त्यांच्या संसाराचा भक्कम आधार होता!

डॉ. आंबेडकर आपल्या संसाराची, पत्नी रमाबाई, भावजय लक्ष्मीबाई, मुलगा यशवंत आणि पुतण्या मुकुंद यांची काळजी घेत असत. रमाबाई व यशवंत यांच्या आजारपणाकडे आणि औषधोपचारांकडेही त्यांचे लक्ष असे; परंतु समाजसेवेच्या कार्यातून त्यांना घरच्यांसाठी जास्त वेळ देता येत नव्हता, ही त्यांची व्यथा होती. ते घरच्यांना खर्चासाठी पुरेसा पैसाही देऊ शकत नव्हते. ते विचार करीत होते, की मुंबईतील सरकारी लॉ कॉलेजचे प्राचार्यपद जर आपल्याला मिळाले, तर आपली आर्थिक स्थिती थोडी सुधारेल. ते त्यासाठी १९३२ पासूनच प्रयत्न करीत होते. पण मे १९३५ पर्यंत त्यांना त्या प्रयत्नांत यश मिळाले नाही. तरी पण त्यांचा प्रयत्न चालूच होता. अशा वेळी काळाने त्यांच्या संसारावर अतिशय दु:खद आघात केला.

१९३५ च्या जानेवारी महिन्यापासून रमाबाईंचा आजार वाढतच चालला होता. औषधोपचारही लागू होत नव्हता. एप्रिलच्या शेवटच्या आठवड्यापासून बाबासाहेब आजारी रमाबाईंच्या जवळ बसून राहू लागले. आजारी रमाबाई त्यांच्याकडे एकटक बघत असत. बोलण्याचा प्रयत्न करीत असत; पण अंगात त्राण नसल्यामुळे त्या बोलू शकत नव्हत्या. त्यांना स्वत: बाबासाहेब औषध देत असत आणि कॉफी किंवा मोसंबीचा रस स्वत:च्या हाताने पाजण्याचा प्रयत्न करीत असत. बाबासाहेबांच्या आग्रहामुळे रमाबाई थोडी कॉफी किंवा मोसंबीचा रस पीत असत. त्यांचा आजार काही केल्या बरा झाला नाही. २६ मे १९३५ रोजी सकाळच्या नऊ वाजण्याच्या वेळेस रमाबाईंचे दु:खद निधन झाले आणि बाबासाहेबांवर दु:खाचा फार मोठा आघात झाला! जवळ जवळ तीस वर्षांच्या संसारात प्रेमाने व धैर्याने भक्कम सोबत देणार्‍या रमाबाई मध्येच अचानक सोबत सोडून न परतीच्या वाटेने कायमच्या दूर निघून गेल्या आणि बाबासाहेब आपल्या संसारात अगदी एकाकी झाले! एक चिंताजनक प्रश्न निर्माण झाला होता, की डॉ. आंबेडकर आता आपले समाजसेवेचे व्रत चालू ठेवतात की सोडून देतात! पण त्या महामानवाने आपली प्रिय पत्नी रमाबाई यांच्या अंतरीच्या इच्छेचा मान राखला आणि अस्पृश्यांच्या व हिंदुस्थान या आपल्या देशाच्या भल्यासाठी आपले समाजसेवेचे व्रत चालूच ठेवले. आपले कोणतेही कर्तव्य असो, ते निष्ठेने करीत राहण्यात डॉ. बाबासाहेब आंबेडकर कर्तव्यपूर्तीचा आनंद अनुभवीत असत. 

बाबासाहेबांच्या पत्नी माईसाहेब आंबेडकर.....!!! 

त्यानंतर बाबासाहेबांनी १५ ऎप्रील १९४८ रोजी डॉ. सविता (शारदा) कबीर सोबत दुसरा विवाह केला,  एवढेच लोकांना माहिती आहे. पण, हा विवाह कोणत्या परिस्थितीमध्ये केला याची माहिती मात्र लोकांना नाही. बाबासाहेबांचे आयुष्याच्या शेवटपर्यंत खाजगी सचिव असलेल्या नानक चंद रत्तू यांनी डॉ. बाबासाहेब आंबेडकरांच्या लिहिलेल्या आठवणींच्या पुस्तकात या बाबतीत लिहिलेले आहे. 

बाबासाहेब मुंबईला डॉ. माधव मावळंकर यांच्या दवाखान्यात १९४८ मध्ये दाखल झाले होते. तेव्हा त्यांनी मधुमेहाच्या आजारावर रोज इन्सुलिनचे इंजेक्शन घेणे गरजेचे आहे असे बाबासाहेबांना सांगितले होते. तेव्हा तुमची शुश्रूषा करेल अश्या स्त्री सोबत तुम्ही एकतर लग्न करा किवा तुमच्या सोबत एखादी स्त्री परिचारिका म्हणून ठेवा अशी सुचना डॉक्टरांनी  केली. तेव्हा बाबासाहेब म्हणाले की, “ माझ्या समाजातील सार्‍याच स्त्रिया मला बाबा म्हणतात. मी कुणाशी लग्न करु?”

अशावेळी डॉ. सविता कबीर बाबासाहेबांना भेटल्या. त्यांनी परिचारिका म्हणून बाबासाहेबांसोबत दिल्लीला येण्याची आणि तेथे त्यांची शुश्रूषा करीत महिनाभर राहण्याची तयारी दर्शवली.

बाबासाहेबांनी त्यांची सुचना  मान्य न करता त्यांना लिहिलेल्या पत्रात बाबासाहेबांनी  लिहिले की, “एखादी स्त्री माझी शुश्रूषा करण्यासाठी माझ्या जवळ असावी, याबद्दल तुम्ही जे विचार मांडले आहेत, ते मला मुळीच स्वागतार्ह वाटलेले नाहीत. या बद्दल मला माफ करा. मी कमालीच्या नैतिक आणि धार्मिक वातावरणात लहानाचा मोठा झालो आहे. त्यामुळे अवांछनिय संबंधांची जाहीर चर्चा निर्मान होईल, असा प्रस्ताव तर सोडाच, पण साधा विचारही मी करू शकत नाही. सार्वजनिक जीवनातील माझी प्रतिमा स्वच्छ चारित्र्याचा आणि निष्कलंक नीतिमत्तेचा व्यक्ती या लौकिकावर उभी राहिलेली आहे. माझे शत्रू सुध्दा मला घाबरत असतील आणि माझा आदरभाव करत असतील, तर ते याच कारणाने! त्या लौकिकाला तडा जाण्याची जराही शक्यता ज्यात असेल, असे काहीही माझ्या हातून कदापिही घडणार नाही. माझी पत्‍नी गेली, तेव्हा मी अविवाहित राहण्याची प्रतिज्ञा केली होती. ती मोडावी लागली तर, मी विवाह करीन, पण कोणत्याही परिस्थितीत आणि विशेषत: घरात दुसरी कोणी स्त्री नाही, अशा वेळी परिचारिका किंवा साथीदार ठेवण्याची सूचना मी मुळीच मान्य करणार नाही.”

डॉ. कबीर आणि बाबासाहेब यांच्यात जवळपास चार महिने पत्रव्यवहार झाला. आपल्या पत्‍नी बद्दलच्या अपेक्षा व्यक्त करतानाच, त्यांनी स्त्रियांबद्दलचा आपला प्रचंड आदरभाव या पत्रात व्यक्त केला आहे. या बाबतीत त्यांनी दादासाहेब गायकवाड व त्यांच्या जवळच्या कार्यकर्त्यांशी सल्लामसलत करुन त्यांचे  मत विचारात घेतले.

डॉ. कबीर आणि बाबासाहेब यांचा विवाह झाला. डॉ. सविता कबीर या  माईसाहेब आंबेडकर म्हणून, बाबासाहेबांच्या जीवनात आल्या.  निकोप चारित्र्याला जपणारे डॉ. बाबासाहेब आंबेडकर असे हे विलक्षण हिमालयाच्या उत्तुंग उंचीचे व्यक्तिमत्व होते!